Canticum Solaris


Thank you to everyone who made this day memorable! I had a wonderful day despite the controls exam and despite my vow not to celebrate this year. I am still mourning the loss of a brilliant man and had decided to abstain from merrymaking until Christmas.

New clothes from my family. My mother has sent a beautiful gown (which I dare not wear unless I am in virtuous company due to the dangerous fact that it slips off my shoulders). I also got a brilliant forest-green dress which I wore today. Have a pocketful of compliments too! It made my day. I love forest-green. Also, they have sent me coconut-milk powder, which constitutes the core of my culinary adventures these days. And chocolates! Five Stars (the best part of my childhood) and rich, bitter chocolate (which woos me to its boudoir every time it is around).

DP gave me a ticket to Itzhak Perlman’s concert scheduled in April next year. I look forward to attending that. It is going to be the experience of a lifetime!

Sibelius took me out on Friday night for the Firebird concert at Atlanta Symphony. Mozart, Stravinsky and Pintscher’s Osiris all made it memorable. The violin solo was beautiful. My concert partner also treated me to excellent food and wine, made all the more appetising due to the company I was in.

Made it to church too this morning.

I also have an important reunion. Something I have been looking forward to for quite some time now! It deserves a post all of its own. So I will save the story for later.

A group of friends from college surprised me at the stroke of midnight when I was sitting down to my Controls preparation. It was nice.

Mike, whose flat is still in the pre-historic era, and his sister, who is organised to the point of giving a grad student headache, have given me a lovely present. I am not one for jewelry in general, but I truly cherish the gift. Amethysts seem to be the theme of my life.

My previous Nanowrimo partner, who celebrated his marriage to his long-time partner recently, has also sent a lovely gift which will keep me warm. It was a surprise, but it is a surprise I am very glad to be on the receiving end of.

Had excellent Kimchi thanks to my Korean friend. She said she wanted to take me out for a proper dinner, but then relented and made me the only dish I eat merrily without prompting and coaxing. Enjoyed the eve with tiramisu, a friend and fine wine. My parents felt I was so out of it that both of them warily told me not to fall asleep during the exam after the indulgence.

My mentor in this new land has also sent something very useful, though the joy was marred by her very harsh email about my silliness and procrastination. I am sure she will be the death of me before she will be the death of her husband. We are both her poor, poor victims.

Also, thank you to everyone who gave me gift cards for Amazon. My library certainly could use some additions!

Thank you to everyone who phoned me this week. And to everyone who emailed me. Uprooted as I am from the places I have lived most of my life in, I felt very cherished when I read your emails and spoke to you via Skype or phone.

And thank you to everyone who wished me, via cards, in person or on social networking sites. I am sure that the notification process of those sites had something to do with why you remembered, but that is fine. I am often guilty of the same.

In other news, I am older today than I was yesterday. This is certainly a cause for worry, though my mother assures my vain self that I take after my father and neither time nor oxidants shall touch me until I reach fifty. Fifty, according to her, will age me badly and make me a rotund, bald crone. A female Chinese Buddha I shall be then, and good Feng Shui to those who keep me. I am gleeful at the prospect of scaring little children then and very much looking forward to the time when everyone will stop commenting rudely about hair that cannot stand to be combed.

Last year, for my birthday, an artist gave me verses based on one of my scribbles. It was one of the reasons why I loved him so, I think. I write for everyone I care about. Rarely anyone writes to me, or about me. I like it when they do. I like poetry written to me as much as I like writing poetry for those I love. I like being on the receiving end of words and art spun of love as I much as I like to gift my words to those I love. As a person, I am capable of going to great lengths to protect, cherish and stay faithful to those I love. In return, I expect the same. The artist knew that. He gave me that. Unless you have known what it means to be on the receiving end of such affection, you will find it hard to understand, regardless of how insightful you might be.

Prometheus, Prometheus, dare I bind thee?

To keep thee safe, and enshrined in me,

In the holiness of my heart’s affections.

Well, onwards I fly, to craft new songs under a new sun.


26 thoughts on “Canticum Solaris

  1. Good that it turned out to be celebratory. Marcel would convince you of the same. We will have many more years of dancing under the sun to your songs.


  2. . Babylon taught me how life shouldn’t be. The coder taught me how life is. The artist taught me how life should be.
    because to the bright sun the hymns of music pour.


  3. A butterfly lights beside us like a sunbeam; And for a brief moment its glory and beauty belong to our world, but then it flies on again. And though we wish it could have stayed, we feel so lucky to have seen it.

    Value everyday. You had the right idea all along when you wrote about butterflies last New Year. “Oh, let us be butterflies!”


    1. When I wrote about butterflies last year, I had not had the slightest inkling as to where life would take me in the months following. Dear God, it was hell. It is something I am yet to recover from, but I know it has changed my path. I am not the person I was in January when I wrote about butterflies. I am more hopeful, I think. Babylon believed in karma. Marcel believed in destiny. A son of California believed in the law of attraction. An old bishop believed that we are only given suffering, grief, loss and misfortune proportionate to our ability to outlast and outgrow them. A hyacinth believed in Ecclesiastes for me when I found my trust slipping. I think, underneath it all, what matters is how we deal with loss on a daily basis. It is hard not to think of what you’ve lost every minute, every day. Some say we should try and divert our mind to other activities to soothe the wound. I find my path is easier when I don’t do that. In remembering what I have lost, I find myself more determined, more strong and more able to let go of petty things and the little troubles brought on by people having a petty moment or two. Grief is a lonely thing. Nobody grieves the same way. I have said this before. Yesterday, at midnight, when my college friends came over, they accidentally stumbled onto this topic. I wondered for a moment how I would deal with it. There was someone in the group perceptive enough to steer us away from the topic if I let him on my distress. I could have done that. I could have avoided the risk of triggering an emotional minefield in my heart. God knows I have been doing that for quite some time. I didn’t, this time. I actually spoke of my loss without losing composure. There was a moment when I almost did (one of them asked ‘your artist?’) but I was able to steer myself out of that minefield. I was surprised at myself. Does it mean I have moved on from the loss? I don’t think so. I think there is in all of us a flame of bright courage to face the world regardless of our losses and crosses. We find it only when we look for it. It is easier to repress everything and move on. It works for some. As I said, grief is a private story.


      1. . I think there is in all of us a flame of bright courage to face the world regardless of our losses and crosses.

        the strength of that flame is based on the way we came, our roots, nammude verukal..


      2. You are way stronger than you know… but not invincible like outsiders think you are. That’s something you need to keep in mind when taking on what’s too heavy for you. Wait before you rush into anything. Don’t be martyr!


  4. Shy, blunt, fearless, fragile. brave, delicate, wise, beautiful, brilliant and innocent sunset bard who brings lush stories of hope and love prevailing over adversity, loss and imprisonment. I used to think you were a bit off your rocker what with the shameless amounts of lust and tragedy your stories have. I get it better now. You are all about outing the truths. The more taboo and unacknowledged they are, the more determined you are to out them. Some stories are easier than others. Yours never are. They need to steep in my mind for a long time for me to get and accept their dark nuances. Your characters, broken and still proud, full of ‘shades of grey’ (sorry for that, lolol) are the ones that stay and prickle my conscience. It has been a privilege to see you grow as a writer and a thinker, to see you ‘weaving’ (no other word for what you do) your intricate plots and ‘damning your characters inside the mazes of conscience, fear and the pains of being human’. May this year bring you success in your new genre!


    1. Well said! You encouraged her greatly on this path! You researched dragonflies for us when we were on a deadline a couple of years ago. Marcel drew dragonflies for the cover. J complained they looked nude. They bickered endlessly. Never got the research done. We were going to miss the deadline… Your research saved the day!


      1. Dragonflies! IMO it was better than the Dante! Did J complain they looked nude? She is more likely to complain they didn’t look nude enough.


  5. ” Itzhak Perlman’s concert scheduled in April next year. I look forward to attending that. It is going to be the experience of a lifetime!”
    It’s a date!


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